Scripture: John 19:1-16a
Main Themes: Power over vs. power with, nonviolence, faith and political power, moral courage, the way of Jesus

Discussion Questions:

  1. Power and Control
    • Pastor Mark contrasts “power over” and “power with.” Where do you see these two kinds of power at work in the world today?
    • When have you experienced “power with”—a kind of leadership or relationship rooted in service, compassion, or shared dignity?
  2. Pilate, Jesus, and the Illusion of Control
    • Pilate appears to be in charge, yet seems controlled by fear and pressure. Where do we see similar dynamics in our own lives or leadership systems?
    • Jesus remains calm and grounded, even when his life is at risk. What do you think gives him that kind of presence and courage?
  3. The Temptation of Dominant Power
    • The sermon suggests that even good intentions can be corrupted by the pursuit of control. Have you ever seen—or experienced—this happen?
    • Why do you think dominant power can feel so effective or appealing, even when it conflicts with our values?
  4. Faith and Influence
    • The religious authorities align themselves with empire, declaring, “We have no king but Caesar.” Where do we see faith communities today tempted to align with power in unhealthy ways?
    • What does it look like to live faithfully without trying to impose beliefs on others?
  5. Choosing the Way of Jesus
    • Jesus models nonviolence, forgiveness, and service even in the face of suffering. Which of these feels most challenging for you right now? Why?
    • Madeleine L’Engle writes about drawing others to Christ through a “lovely light.” What might that look like in your daily life?
  6. Applying the Sermon
    • Where in your life this week are you being invited to choose “power with” instead of “power over”?
    • How can we as a church embody a kind of faith that reflects humility, justice, and love—especially in a divided world?